and decide to get him a snack, but want to get him something that’s at least sort of nutritional while still being somewhat enjoyable, so you buy him honey roasted peanuts and a peanut butter chocolate chip Clif bar, but then he doesn’t want them so you offer them to the next homeless man you see and he doesn’t want them either, so you ask the third homeless man you encounter if he wants them, and he doesn’t either, so you think “did I go overboard on the peanuts? Or maybe it’s just me…” and take the snacks home and resolve to find a homeless person who wants them later, and then you go out for your friend’s birthday that night and get drunk and come home and pour the bag of peanuts into your mouth and start eating the Clif bar and think “this is gross, I don’t even WANT this” but of course keep eating it anyway while also thinking “this was supposed to be for a HOMELESS person” and attempting to respond to unexpected drunk texts from your ex with the tact and grace of a unicorn.
I learned LONG ago that it is NOT food they want. I spent my only money one morning when I was working for the cult (the Sea Org) on Hollywood Blvd. when I was about 15 to buy myself a rare treat of hot chocolate and a breakfast burrito, I had taken one bite, when a homeless man approached me and asked for money. Seeing as I had literally spent my last cent on that meal, I offered it to him, figuring I could skip the meal (I was a pro at missing many meals). He took it and as I turned and walked away, he threw it at the back of my head dousing me in hot chocolate and egg and potato. I then had to spend the 18 hour workday covered in my breakfast. Fun times.
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Oh gawd I just realized that I totally relied in the most bummer manner possible to your funny post. Yuck, Delete my comment!
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No- that’s life and an interesting twist!
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I am misfiring in an epic way today lol. I cannot even type correctly! I am missing out on a whole day of studying because of my sleep deprived brain :-p
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Not at all!!! I misfire every day and don’t have any excuses for it ๐ You at least have CR up above you to blame ๐
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Lol I truly haven’t felt this much hate for a stranger EVER before in my life! Oh EXCEPT for maybe L. RON HUBBARD. VOMIT.
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Just saw this! No worries at all! I don’t think it’s delete-worthy but if you want me to I will!!
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I am so tired. I just don’t want to be an Eeyore on your blog! โค
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Not at all!! Trust me, I totally get it–I vote we take massive naps today ๐
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I can never seem to nap for some reason. Can you nap for me and send some sleep my way?
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OMG I can’t either!!!! I just threw that out there as a lame attempt at a solution to our tiredness haha. WHYYYYYYYYYYY can’t we just sleep?! Also, I am having major confusion about the order in which my comments have been listed, but basically, if I “liked” any of your comments related to the homeless man throwing food at you and you worrying about being a bummer, I didn’t mean to imply that I’m happy he threw food at you or that I thought you were being a bummer. Ugh I’m just incompetent sorrrrrry–today needs to be over already!! ๐
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Lol I have no fucking clue how to properly work the whole WordPress thing so no worries there!
Sleep is an evasive asshole!
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Same same same!!! I glad we understand each other haha
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Also I just realized I “liked” this but didn’t mean to, sorry!! See, I’M misfiring too! ๐
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Haha we are quite the pair!
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OH MY GOD. I am so sorry that happened to you!! You’re amazing xo
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You are just the sweetest thing and I adore you!
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Likewise!!!!
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My first thought was “…just how many homeless people do you have outside of your CVS? Maybe time to think about changing drugstores?” (just kidding)
One time, I was with a boss and another employee, we were driving to lunch. There was a person with a cardboard sign asking for a handout. My boss was kinda a jerk, but had actually fallen on hard times himself at one point in life, but figured out the programs available and so had no sympathy to those holding signs – when the next thing happened, it wasn’t out of concern, but to be an ass:
“Pull over, pull over…” rolls down the window and tells the guy “I’m not going to give you money, but you know, there’s a soup kitchen – gives a free hot meal, provides shower and place to stay” just down this street 1 block. “You don’t need to stand here with a sign.” (he knows about the program because he’s used it himself many years ago- therefore refuses to give money to people)
the homeless man just stared at us and then turned his head and ignored us. He wanted money, probably to spend on alcohol. I’m pretty sure he already knew where the free food was as to his close proximity to the Costa Mesa Soup Kitchen.
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Ugh. It’s so hard. I don’t want to assume a homeless person will use any money I give them on alcohol/drugs, but I also get discouraged when I have experiences like this one.
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I actually bought a dude a 40 oz. bottle of beer once. He was having the shakes and I know how terrible the DTs can be for an alcoholic. It was a cheap solution to get him out of pain temporarily.
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I’m pretty sure what you were supposed to get him was Chips Ahoy. Or pizza, because pizza has all four food groups. Cheese, bread, pepperoni, and grease.
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My bad ๐
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Next time you see me homeless outside your CVS that’s what I will request, but if you give me a Cliff Bar, I promise to eat it and not throw it at your head.
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Thank you ๐
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And thank you profusely.
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I don’t even actually know you but you are my favorite person. I am in tears laughing not only at this post but at the confusion in the comments. I am literally crying and giggling to myself
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Right back atcha!! And that makes me really happy, thank you ๐
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I had to share this story with my boyfriend and I was literally laughing so hard I could barely tell him. Needless to say, I thought it was funnier than he did but he did think it was funny!
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I’m so honored you shared it!! And I’m just so happy we have each other to laugh at/with ๐
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I laughed a lot reading this the other day. And then today at work I thought about it and chuckled once more. A+++ would be amused by again.
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Thank you! ๐
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Homeless people are the pickiest eaters. I once helped out a friend who was Buddhist so they made peanut butter and jelly sandwiches. 400 of them to distribute on the streets. Everyone kept asking, “Where the chicken at?!”
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